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Christabelle llum il-ġurnata ma għandha bżonn ta’ l-ebda introduzzjoni tiftaħ qalba mas-segwaċi tagħha dwar il-fatt li r-raġel tagħha għandu karriera professjonali fil-waterpolo. L-opportunità li jilgħab għal AC Roma ġewwa wieħed mill-aqwa kampjonati fid-dinja tal-waterpolo ġiet ftit xhur qabel it-tieġ. Christabelle tistqarr li kienet kuntenta imma fl-istess ħin għarfet li din l-opportunità ħa tbegħedhom minn xulxin.

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It has always been Jordan’s dream to pursue a full-time career in waterpolo but his professional career always took precedence. A few months before our wedding Jordan was at the European Championships in Barcelona when he called to tell me that he had been offered a professional contract with AS Roma playing in A1 Italy, one of the best leagues in the world, if not the best. At that moment I started crying both tears of happiness and tears of sadness too, thinking how would our marriage survive living apart. My job didn’t allow me to pack my bags and leave. We made a decision together that he would put his medical career on hold for a year to pursue one of his lifetime dreams. He left a week before the wedding, came back down a day before and left again 2 hours after our wedding reception ended. I woke up the next morning as a married woman without my husband. I decided to visit as often as I could and so I made my way to Rome every fortnight for 36 hours on Saturday morning to watch his team play and back to Malta on Sunday night. I have to admit, it wasn’t easy to go through the struggles of life on a daily basis all on my own and most nights I got less than 3 hours of sleep. Life had become more and more difficult and every day I cried in bed and occasionally argued with my husband because I was all alone. I am definitely not proud of these moments because I am extremely supportive of what he does and in those moments it obviously didn’t seem that way. We would argue and make up after a few minutes. It got a bit easier at times and became more difficult in others. Jordan is now back in Malta after an extremely successful season with AS Roma and our love has survived this long distance marriage. As Jordan always says as long as we have each other we’ll weather any storm. I will support my husband forever till God gives me the energy and the courage to do so, as does he #LOVEWINS

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Infatti tkompli billi tistqarr li minħabba impenji tax-xogħol, ma kienx possibli li titlaq kollox u tmur tgħix l-Italja però ħadet id-deċiżjoni li titla’ kull meta jkun possibli, ħafna drabi kull ħmistax fejn tqattgħa 36 siegħa l-Italja, tasal is-Sibt filgħodu u lura Malta l-Ħadd flgħaxija. Hi tammetti li ma kien faċli xejn u kien hemm mumenti li kienu ferm diffiċli u oħrajn li kienu ħarira inqas faċli – imma wara perjodu diffiċli Jordan jinsab lura Malta.

Iż-żwieġ tal-koppja salva avolja t-tnejn li huma kellhom jagħmlu sagrifiċċji kbar però tistqarr li flimkien jafu li jistgħu jirbħu kull maltemp. Tagħlaq billi tgħid li l-imħabba tirbaħ meta jkun hemm is-sapport kontinwu lejn xulxin. Messaġġ li żgur għandu jservi ta’ ispirazzjoni għal dawk il-koppji li minħabba raġuni ta’ xogħol jew inkella raġunijiet oħra jinsabu ’l bogħod minn xulxin!

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